A Lapse in Motivation: Week-in-Review & Link-up

February 16, 2015

Today reminded me of everything I don’t want to be.

Those were the words I wrote in my training journal last Friday. I hated having to write that. And, I hate having to admit it here.

Bad weeks happen. We fall down. We get back up. We can’t keep dwelling on what went wrong; rather we must focus on what we’re going to do moving forward to be better. As I tell some of the runners I coach, you can’t beat yourself up for every bad run and not celebrate the good parts about the run or the training week. We have to use the parts of each week that didn’t go as we had hoped to set goals for the week ahead. The same holds true here. I made some good choices, and I made some poor choices. I will channel the negative feelings I experienced after my poor choices to have a great week this week.

Every week I share my weekly training and how I’m taking action against my 2015 goals. I also share the one thing I’m most proud of from the week and the one pitfall that has challenged me the most. Then, I invite you to do the same. There is a place at the bottom of this post for you to share a link to your weekly recap for others to come and cheer you on or offer you support. If you don’t have a Web site, simply share about your week in the comments section.

Here’s what last week looked like:

Getting Sweaty and Stronger

My fitness goals for 2015 are to stay in half marathon shape year-round (20-30 miles of running per week and long runs of 8-11 miles) and get stronger (2-3 strength training and cross training workouts each week).

I only ran twice this past week. I had planned to run on Thursday, but I decided to rest. Then I planned to run on Friday, and, well, ugh! I got back on the ball on Saturday and felt really good. In other news, Mr. rUnladylike joined ClassPass last week, so I’m excited for us to be able to try some new workouts together.

  • Monday: 45 minutes at Flywheel (22.4 miles, second place in the class)
  • Tuesday: Strength training: 1 hour of arms and abs at Fit: To Be
  • Wednesday: AM: Ran 4 miles with 5 x 2 minutes hard at 6:40/mile with 2 minutes easy between each; PM: 1 hour restorative yoga at Wide Angle Yoga
Week in review on runladylike.com
  • Thursday: REST
  • Friday: I’d rather not talk about Friday. I guess I’ll let my training log speak for itself. Basically I made a bunch of bad choices and excuses and did nothing. Except eat my face off. Ugh.
Week in review on runladylike.com
  • Saturday: Ran 10.3 solo miles at 8:19 average pace,with a fast finish between 7:30-7:50 pace. I was supposed to have a running date with Mr. rUnladylike, but he was sick in bed with the flu so I ran alone instead.
Week in review on runladylike.com
  • Sunday: AM: 45 minutes at Torq Cycle (17.32 miles and first place overall); PM: 75 minutes restorative yoga at {sacred} sweat yoga

Eating Clean

My nutrition goals for 2015 are to cook most days of the week, limit sugar and bread intake, track my food daily and focus on eating clean(er).

Here were a few Pin-worthy recipes I made last week that I would recommend (you can see all the recipes I’m pinning and making here.):

  • Slow Cooker Minestrone Soup: This minestrone soup from Little Spice Jar is perfect for a Monday or busy weekday dinner. You can put it in the crockpot and let it cook all day, plus for a family of 2 to 4, it will make leftovers for lunch or dinner the next day. I forgot to put the spinach in at the end, but otherwise I followed the recipe. You may find that you need to add more spices or salt and pepper to taste before serving. This is the perfect warm soup to heat you up through this chilly winter.
  • Lasagna Stuffed Spaghetti Squash: This delicious dish from Ari’s Menu is definitely a must-make. They sound a little complicated but they are quick and easy to assemble. You cut the squash in half and bake for about 45 minutes. Then you stuff them with an easy meat and cheese mixture, top with mozzarella and pop back in the oven on broil for a few minutes. I served mine with some green beans on the side. They ring in around 550 calories per serving (I didn’t add chicken sausage because I didn’t have any in the house … I just used the turkey), but they are very filling. Two thumbs up.
Lasagna Stuffed Spaghetti Squash on runladylike.com
  • Paleo Banana Muffins: These are an oldie but a goodie. I love making these delicious banana muffins that have no sugar, flour or dairy. I folded in some Enjoy Life (paleo friendly) chocolate chips into mine this week. Unfortunately, I ate one too many, but they sure are satisfying. They ring in at about 200 calories per muffin.
Paleo Banana Muffins on runladylike.com

What I’m Most Proud of

I’m most proud of one of the runners I coach achieving a 5-minute half marathon PR on Sunday. This comes after a 25-minute PR in the fall for a total of 31 minutes shaved off her total time during the past year. I am so incredibly proud of this runner’s journey and her dedication and discipline. As her coach, I am a small part of that journey. She is the one that has to choose to make the right decisions and be dedicated to her goals, plan and nutrition. She has learned that if you are willing to put in the work, you can do things you once thought were impossible. I cannot stop smiling about her victory!

rUnladylike coaching ... runladylike.com

Where I Struggled

I really struggled Thursday and Friday with everything. I was lacking motivation to get out and move, and I made some really bad food choices that were bordering on total binge behavior. I was really beating myself up about it, but I realized that all I can do is move ahead and make good decisions this week. So I’m back on track and those bad days are behind me.

Thought for the Week Ahead

“The distance between dreams and reality is called discipline.”
~Unknown

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I want to hear from you! How was your week last week? How was your training? What are you most proud of? Where were you most challenged? Share your comments and/or link up to your weekly recap post below.

Comments

Mike Podracky

I had a good week/bad week somewhat too. As part of my speed work for marathon training, I did on Tuesday my fastest 3×1 mile ever (on an indoor track) averaging 6:40/mile. My best 5k time averaged 6:56/mile; so maybe I have one more PR in me for the 5K. I’ve found adding 10 seconds to my 3×1 mile time is a good predictor of my 5K finish.

On the downside, I wimped out on Sunday and cut my 13 mile long run short. It was 2 degrees with a nasty wind outside, so I went indoors again on a 6 lap/mile track to run the 13 miles. After about 7 miles, I started getting really bored on the track and one IT Band felt crappy from all the turns I guess, so I tried going to the treadmill. That lasted 1.5 miles as I have grown to hate the treadmill, and then I just quit. It’s been well over a year since I cut a planned long run short, so that really sucked. And I was po’d at myself for giving up on the treadmill. I sulked somewhat the rest of Sunday until the SNL 40 Anniversary special put me in a better mood.

rUnladylike

Mike! Great job on your mile repeats! That is a great pace and I cant’ wait to see how your races go for you this year. Sunday’s run certainly wasn’t for a lack of effort! It sounds like you really tried to make it work, and sometimes that’s all we can do. 8.5 is ALWAYS better than zero miles! Looping a track and being on the treadmill for so long definitely gets monotonous! Channel what went really well into this week, and I know your long run will be strong this weekend. Great job with your training. Thanks for sharing!

Jojo @ RunFastEatLots

My training went pretty well last week! I am working on building my running base for half marathon training and did some new workouts that left me pretty sore. Although I skipped out on a planned yoga class on Friday, I was fine with it because the time was spent catchin up with a friend.
One thing I want to work on is incorporating more speed work into my training. Sometimes I just want to mindlessly run at a cruising speed, but I gotta get those uncomfortable miles in improve on my speed!

rUnladylike

Good job on your week Jojo. Sounds like it was really good. Incorporating speed work once you have a solid base foundation will be a game-changer for your training/running when done properly. If you search “speed work” in the search bar on the site you’ll see the pieces I’ve written about setting paces and incorporating it into your training if that is helpful. Keep me posted. xo

Beth @ Running with the Sunrise

I hope the Mr. is starting to feel better! Love that you were able to put your bad day(s) into perspective and try to move past that. What’s done is done, so it’s best to move on and focus on what we can control in that moment instead of dwelling on the past that we can no longer change. Hope this week is better for you!

Allie

It’s funny that my rundown this week was titled “decisions!” It dawned on me that I have control over how I feel about a given situation or myself for that matter. We all have those kinds of Fridays but yes, shrug it off and move on. It’s those days that make you human. And, you had so many other great moments – not the least of which was your runner and her insane PRs! WOW!!!! How awesome for both of you.

Jess

I had a rough week too. I did manage to not give into my cravings which was really hard with all the sweets around. Overall I’m glad last week is behind us now! Hope Mr is feeling better and hope to see you Saturday!

rUnladylike

Sorry your week was tough, Jess. Here’s to a great week ahead! xo

Smitha @ FauxRunner

I love your recipe sharing!! I’m going to try the minestrone soup. Today’s a perfect day for it.
And congrats again to Amy and you for the awesome strides she is making!

rUnladylike

Thanks so much Smitha! Let me know what you think if you try the recipe. Sarah from RunFarGirl also has a great one with sausage in it for those who want meat in theirs. xo

Laura @ This Runner's Recipes

I need to make the Lasagna Spaghetti Squash recipe! I made it for my husband lately and it turns out he loves it.
Congrats to you and Amy, what an awesome PR! What an accomplishment for both of you!
Winter training is beginning to get challenging. It’s super cold where I live and there’s snow and ice everywhere, so I’ve been doing lots of my runs on the treadmill. It’s frustrating because I’m worried so much treadmill running will impact my half marathon goals for my April race.

rUnladylike

It is so good! I hope you like it as much as we do. There is one more left in my fridge I’m going to have for lunch today 🙂
I’m sorry to hear that the winter is getting in the way of your runs. Way to make them happen on the treadmill. You’re right it can become mentally challenging, but you will be stronger for it when you’re back out on the road. Stay strong and stay warm. xo

Alyssa

I struggled this past week with going on vacation and having my workouts go way off track… even though I don’t mention it much in my review above, it definitely gets to me when I feel like I am “missing” workouts, and I have had so many of those guilty moments over eating the wrong thing or feeling like I messed up. I think you got it right in the end though – you just have to point yourself forward and keep trying your best!

rUnladylike

Hi Alyssa! Thanks for sharing your honest thoughts. We have all been there (probably more often than we like to admit). The good news is that we’re aware when we don’t feel like we’re being our best self and we can course-correct along the way. Now that you’re back from vaca you can get back on track and have a fabulous week ahead. Try not to beat yourself up too much (I’m going to try to do the same). xoxo

kristin | W [H] A T C H

man, i’ve had my share of “made excuses, ate a lot of shit days.” doesn’t make it okay, but it’s real. thanks for the transparency.

Rebecca@Runningfoodbaby

I always struggle with time – I don’t have enough time to workout and it makes me feel bad, even though I’m actually getting a decent amount of workouts in. I’m still thinking I’m in “marathon mode” and it is really hard to get out of.

I am really liking that I am seeing progress in my strength training. I don’t feel like I’m swimming in my clothes/the lanky girl anymore!

Lee@tri*inspired*life

Way to put it all out there! You made a commitment to share your journey to reaching your goals and that certainly involves all the good stuff as well as the not so good. Your Saturday run that turned into a solo run, might have been a good thing after a tough Friday. Sometimes running alone to clear the head and be alone with your thoughts is just what you need!

Nicole

You are too hard on yourself!! To the average person you freaking killed it last week. Take a step back and look at what you’ve accomplished and I’m sure you’ll be ok with a couple lazy days of junk food eating! 🙂

From one type-A perfectionist to another.

Xoxo 🙂

rUnladylike

Haha, Nicole. Thank you for your kind words, and yes, I think the two of us are probably very similar in real life (hopefully we’ll get to meet someday). I think for me, it was the making the conscious choice to choose to be lazy, coupled with binge eating that made me feel really bad. Had I shared my food diary from Thursday through Saturday, you might be nodding your head with me in agreement. LOL. Thanks for all your support. Hope you’re doing well. xo

Angie

We all have bad weeks! I keep having snow delays for school with kids, and sick kids, that cramp my training schedule, but you just have to learn to roll with the punches! I hear ya on the binge eating – February is filled with two birthdays at my house and my 3 kiddos get TONS of Valentine’s Day crap from everyone (classmates, aunts, 3 sets of grandparents, uuuggg). I just threw half of it out because I kept hoarding it! They still have Halloween candy so they will never know! Like you said, you just have to move on! Thanks always for your honest posts! You keep it real which makes us all bounce back easier from our tough days and weeks!

elizabeth

i know we’ve already talked about this one- but try not to beat yourself up. pick up where you jumped off the train and get back on it (which you always do so well!). And, gotta make those lasagna squash things!

Ari @ Ari's Menu

So glad you enjoyed the spaghetti squash!! Thanks for the link love!