You Are Not Alone

March 30, 2016

During the past four years, I’ve written 535 articles about running on this small corner of the Internet. It’s not successful race experiences, training insights, inspiring fitness stories, tips for how to be your best runner, giveaways or triathlon advice that resonate most with people. It’s the moments of struggle, hardship and sometimes what feels like downright personal failure that moves you time and time again.

Why is that? The answer is simple. Because we all understand it. We all experience it in both running and in life. And, oftentimes, we’re scared or ashamed or not sure how to talk about it. Ironically, we don’t realize how many people all around us are going through the same exact thing and who just need a reason to share.

On Monday, I opened up about where I really am in my personal running journey. Just like when I shared about how endurance training can negatively impact your personal relationships, or the constant tug-of-war between getting on the clean eating wagon and falling off again, or losing perspective of what really matters or even having a miscarriageyour words are where the power comes, not mine. The stories flow out like water that has been trapped in a bursting pipe. Not a trickle. Not a drip. A full-on deluge of “me too,” “thank goodness I’m not the only one” and “let me tell you about when I was there but how I have overcome … which means you will too.”

We’ve all heard that sharing is caring. But in this case, caring is sharing. Because the running community cares about each other, we have the courage to share. And in sharing, we realize we are not alone.

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The generosity and thoughtfulness of the running community and runladylike.com readers humble me to my core. What YOU share matters. YOUR story, YOUR experiences make a difference.

When you are having a hard day …

When you are tempted to let a bad run or a sluggish fitness streak create self-doubt …

When you don’t know how to overcome a challenge …

When your body or your brain feel like they are betraying you …

When you hit a bump in the road in your running relationship …

Just remember you’re not alone.

It doesn’t matter if you win countless races or will never see a podium in your life, every runner experiences the spectrum of emotions, seasons and moments that come with a long-term relationship with running. In case you ever forget, the person you pass on your local trail or see win a race on TV or read regularly online, they’ve all been exactly where you are right now (or will be at some point). As a runner, you’re never alone.

Thanks for being a community of rock stars. Rock, er, run on!

Are there any issues or conversations you wish were discussed more in the running community?

Comments

lacey@fairytalesandfitness

At this moment I can’t think of anything specific I wish was discussed more. I do enjoy reading a variety of blogs bc there is always something I learn when reading about someone’s experience. Everyone has a unique way of sharing.

Tim

Just keep sharing the goods! Your words are always very inspirational and something I always look forward to! Thanks

Kimberly

Thank you for sharing your struggles, triumphs and gratitude. I’m another one that has been in a rut {for a LONG time}. The caring and sharing might be just what I need…oh and the new rUnladylike recommended earbuds with a new playlist to compliment them. 🙂

Allie

Could not agree more! Rock and run on my friend!!

Sarah @ SarahRuns26

Love this! While I love reading people’s positive experiences and perspective on running, it is nice to see both sides of it. I love running, but that doesn’t mean it is easy to get out there everyday. Some days I just don’t feel like it. I think most things are like that. I love my job but today when I got out of bed, extra tired, I told my husband that I just don’t want to go to work today. It happens. Thanks for sharing both your ups and downs and being real with it all! 🙂

Ericka

This is exactly what I needed to read. Thank you.

Amanda N

It’s so true! I don’t think I’ve ever met a runner that isn’t awesome and caring. There is a whole community of amazing people and we all share the passion of running. Love that you’re so real – keep it up!

Gabrielle from Austria

Thank you, Jesica.I love reading your blog. I learn so much from you about running.
Don’t change much. Your blog is perfect as it is!