A Bedroom Doorknob Reminded Me about What I Believe

January 4, 2017

For the past several years, my mom has hung her race medals on the back of her bedroom doorknob. Every time you’d accidentally brush the shiny medallions as you entered the room or when their dog would nose his way in, they’d clang like church bells on Sunday morning. What seemed like a good place to hang one or two medals at first suddenly looked like Michael Phelps’ neck on the cover of Sports Illustrated.

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The most interesting thing about my mom’s pile of medals that hung from the doorknob is that they were earned by the same woman who once declared she could not run more than 60 seconds without stopping. About a dozen half marathons and countless shorter distance races later, it’s a miracle my mom’s doorknob never fell off the door.

Naturally, something had to be done about this. For Christmas, I bought my mom this handmade medal hanger from Etsy. No more clanging medals upon entering her room. Her personal victories are far too meaningful to be swinging from the back of a door.

She recently shared this photo on her Facebook page with a message to all her running friends: “Thank you for helping me believe that I could.”

I know many of you out there are setting big goals for the year. You may be seasoned runners reaching for a big race goal, or you may currently think there are still many things you “can’t” do as you look to take small steps to improve health or fitness. As the old saying goes, whether you believe you can or you believe you can’t, you’re right.

Want to know what I believe? I believe each of us (yes, that’s YOU) has the potential inside us to do hard things, including things that sometimes seem impossible at first. When I truly started to believe in myself and my running abilities in 2013, my running changed. I transformed into a different runner, embracing discomfort and challenges to dig deeper and reach higher.

As you dream big at the beginning of this new year, I encourage you to remember my mom’s medal holder. It seems like such a simple thing; but it is anything but simple. It represents an old belief that she couldn’t run a half marathon … or even one mile. It represents a slow build to one minute, then one mile, then to three miles and beyond. It represents many half marathon finishes completed by a 63-year-old woman who now believes she is a runner and can do hard things. You can read more about my mom’s running story here.

“When I started training for my first half marathon, I couldn’t run a minute without stopping. But what I found was that if I tried it again the next day, and the next day, and the next day, I kept getting stronger. So even going from one minute to three minutes was a huge victory. I found that I couldn’t compare myself to anyone but me. So that is what I did.” ~My mom

Everyone’s journey is different. Some take longer to get there. Some are faster and some are slower. Some are filled with personal bests and some are filled with lessons learned. No matter where your journey takes you, never stop believing that you can do what you set your mind to at any age. If you believe you can do it, you can do it.

What did you once believe you could not do that you have done?

 

Comments

Allie

What a great gift!! I love so much about this, especially since it reminds me of my favorite mantra that my dad has been telling me since I was 5 year-old gymnast – – what the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve! Hell yes to that and congratulations to your mom!!

Memphis

I love this story! Thank you so much for sharing it. I feel like I want to be friends with your mom.

rUnladylike

Awe, thank you! My mom is the very best.

CK @ Cooking Up Kefi

What a wonderful gift for your mother! It’s trite but true–of all the things I thought I couldn’t, the only ones I haven’t achieved are the ones I’ve never tried. Sub 2:00 half? Check. Sub 50 10k? Check. This year, it’s on to the big kahuna: full marathon!

Thanks for sharing this little reminder that running is, largely, about believing in ourselves and just getting one foot in front of the other!

rUnladylike

Good luck training for your first full marathon, CK!!! I’m excited for you and hope you’ll keep me posted about how your training is going! xo

Carla

Oh. I. Love. This. So. So. Much.

Christina

Love this. A medal hanger is probably one of my favorite gifts ever. Jessica gave me my first one and I got my sister Angie her first. I feel like it’s a gift that says – you’re a runner. Love 🙂

Laura @ This Runner's Recipes

What a great gift – and great post! After BQing at CIM, my husband surprised me by decorating the wall around my home office with my race bibs to remind me of what I’ve achieved – it is inspiring to see medals and bibs on display. Congrats to your mom on all of her achievements!

Sandra Laflamme

I love this and your mom is a ROCKSTAR! It is so important to believe and then to celebrate your accomplishments!!

Katie @Hungry Runner

Go mom! I LOVE this story! The lesson is so true and such a great reminder. I was once a non-runner who couldn’t complete even one lap on the track and never would have dreamed of running a marathon. Yet, here I am today, two marathons, a handful of half marathons and countless other races under my belt. Nothing is impossible 🙂