10 Truths about Running

August 26, 2013

For the past 5 days, I’ve done nothing but talk about running, think about running, hang out with runners and run. I returned from the Hood to Coast Relay last night feeling energized and inspired. It was an epic and profound experience that was much more than just a race or another run (race recap coming this week). It’s hard to describe the thoughts and feelings that have been coursing through my soul the past few days. What I do know is that this experience has deeply clarified what I know to be true about running. Running is a lot more powerful than simple forward motion. It’s more than getting sweaty or crossing finish lines. When I think about running, I think about the people it has brought into my life and the person it has helped me become. I’m thankful to the Nuun team and the women I shared my Hood to Coast experience with who helped make these lessons clearer to me than ever.

These are the 10 things I know to be true about running.

1. We are stronger than we think we are. We are capable of doing more than we think we can do. The only boundaries around us are the ones we set for ourselves. Let go of your doubts. Let go of your fears. Focus on what you’re going to do, not if you can actually do it. (I’m so guilty of this!) Be confident in yourself. Believe in yourself. As my friend Tere would say, what we think is what we become. Think positive. Think bigger.

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Finishing my last leg at Hood to Coast and running faster than I thought I could run

2. Celebrate every runner of every ability. Every person who makes the choice to run is awesome. Whether you run a 5-minute mile or a 15-minute mile, everyone who runs is a rock star in their own rite. If you think you’re better than someone because you’re faster, you’re not. Never forget that every runner who is putting in effort – to push herself, to try harder, to be better – is the same. Remember who you are and why you started running, and be a positive influence for everyone who runs, regardless of pace.

3. There will always be someone who is better, faster and/or stronger than you. Be proud of what you can do, even if you can’t (yet) do what others around you can. Be grateful you can run and love the runner you are.

4. Don’t be so hard on yourself. Every run will not be your best run. On those days, give yourself a break and channel your energy into moving forward. Use the bad days as learning experiences and readjust your goals on the days or runs that are difficult. Focus more on what you can do than on what you can’t or don’t think you can do.

5. Be the kind of person who inspires people daily. Be your true self. Be kind and supportive to those around you. Share an encouraging word with someone new to running. Take the time to help someone who needs your advice. Volunteer at a race. Pace a friend who is slower than you to a new PR. Be the kind of person you want others to be.

6. Balance running with life. At the end of the day, true happiness has little to do with the number of marathon medals tucked away in a drawer or how many race PRs you’ve achieved. It’s about the people we experience those milestones with. The people who are there supporting us every day. The relationships we develop. The love that we build and share.

7. The only way to get better is to work harder. To be focused and disciplined. To do what you say you’re going to do. Running isn’t easy, but it’s the challenge that makes it great.

8. Don’t forget to have fun. If running isn’t fun, you shouldn’t be doing it. If you need to take a break, take one. If you want to remember why you love running, go for a trail run, register for a relay or try something you haven’t done before.

Having some pre-Hood to Coast fun riding on a Duck Tour around Seattle
Having some pre-Hood to Coast fun riding on a Duck Tour around Seattle

9. Running is a community. Running bonds people together who may never have met or otherwise been friends. Running is an individual effort but it’s truly a team sport. The people I run with make me a better runner.

10. Running doesn’t define you. The kind of person you are every day is what defines you. How you are as a human being. The way you treat others. That is what defines you. Running just makes us better.

What do you believe to be true about running? What has running taught you about life?

Comments

Courtney

Great list!

Running has taught me that I can do more than I think I can most of the time. Just yesterday, I didn’t know how I was going to run for 4.5 miles straight (I’m doing a 10k training program) but I did it. I constantly surprise myself.

rUnladylike

Awesome job, Courtney! Congrats on rocking your 4.5 miles. It is always the mental part that tends to be even tougher than the physical part. I have to constantly remind myself that as I am so guilty of self-doubt. Good luck with your training and your 10K!

Laura @losingrace

Absolutely love this post. I don’t have much to add you really hit on on the way I feel about things…. well said.

Hope you had a great time at HTC!

Kathy Nguyen

This is a great post. Running has definitely made me think twice about what I used to believe I could not do.

Rachel @ Undercover Diva: A Sitcom

I love this list!! I believe everything that’s on this post, especially the “we are stronger than we think we are.” Often times, I hit a mental block before a physical block, but I’ve learned to push through that wall. Running has taught me how to find a little bit of peace in an otherwise busy and chaotic world. It helps me to find my focus and reconnect with myself every morning.

Erin Simon

This post is truly inspiring. Most of us know all these things to be true about running but it is so refreshing to be reminded of them. Many times I find myself getting caught up in pace and sticking to a strict schedule. I think running has taught me independence. I first started running in high school for my cross country team. Back then I ran because my coach told me too. Now that I run on my own I love that my accomplishments are truly my own. I run because I want to. I push myself to impress myself as opposed to a coach. If I want to be successful, it is up to me alone and I love it.

Katie Randolph

Very good insight: seems like HTC lent you some great perspective. Can’t wait to hear all about your adventures!

Thanks for such a great post; I really needed this kind of a reminder right now.

Jojo @ RunFastEatLots

Running has taught me to set high goals for myself and ignore the self doubt.

Rebecca@Running.Food.Baby

Great post!

I always remember my 16 year old self who was convinced she couldn’t run more than a mile 🙂

Ali K. @ Hit the Ground Running

This is spot on. What I know to be true: you get out of it what you put in!

Congrats on HTC. Watching your updates has me SO excited for my first relay in the winter!

Anna@AnnaTheApplw

Yes! I totally agree with all your points. I’ve found that being a runner you’re suddenly part of this amazing community where you can just talk to any other runner and you just ‘get’ each other.
I loved it when I volunteered at a race. You just got a buzz from watching the runners go round – whether they were right at the front or right at the back, they all looked so determined and strong. I’m so proud to be runner amongst so many amazing people!

Kathy

I love this post and your blog is great. I grew up dancing that was always something that came very easy to me and I was good at it…I was also a fast sprinter…but run a mile? or more??? forget about it! Now I am 31 and over the past ten years I have run off and on and I love it. It is something I am terrible at (like, training for months to get to a 13 minute mile 5k kind of bad), but it feels good and its challenging and it never gets old to exceed my own limits. I was in law school and did ballet for many years and my whole life was about competing with others and being the best, and with running, something where I will never be the best nor need to be for any particular reason, it’s a huge relieve and very cathartic to not have that sort of competition and to be competing only against myself.

If youre great at running it can be enjoyable and for me, being so darn bad at it has been enjoyable. It’s nice to have something to just do for me and simply doing it and finishing is incredibly gratifying.

rUnladylike

Thank you so much, Kathy! Your insights and perspective are so powerful.

Megan

LOVE this! So true. And you’re right, HTC was all of this in one. Miss it way too much already.

Amber @ Another Triathlon Blog

Great list, and it even transcends running and applies to just life in general. It was nice to read this today as I have started school in pursuit of a complete career change, which is TERRIFYING. Not to mention I am still training for IM Augusta 70.3 which is coming up FAST and working full-time. Working hard, being flexible, and believing in yourself and your goals are something we should all remember every day. Long story short, I needed some inspiration today so THANK YOU! 🙂

rUnladylike

YOu can do it Amber! Keep being awesome 🙂

Beth

Excellent post! Can’t wait to hear about HTC. #8 is high on my list right now since I’ve been bogged down in the numbers. Always a great reminder!

Jenn

All of this! I especially love 4, 5 and 9. This has been the most amazing community, and I am so proud to be a part of it.

desi

Thank you for number 2. It’s great to hear, especially from someone as accomplished as you. I’ve been feeling really down about my abilities lately because so many blogs posts lately have sort of putting down the slowpokes like me. Love to hear recognition that I’m as awesome for becoming a runner as I feel 😉

rUnladylike

Desi, YOU ARE AWESOME! Running is hard. It is hard for everyone no matter the pace. At Hood to Coast, I spent a lot of time with a woman who runs a 2:40 marathon. She makes me look like a snail but she was also building me up, telling me I was awesome. She made me believe in myself more. That kind of support is what we all need to give to those around us. You are awesome for simply getting out there and giving it the best you’ve got. That’s all any of us can ever ask for. Keep it up!

Lindsay @ Lindsay Weighs In

Wow! Loved this post! I’m not even running 15 minute miles yet, probably more like 20 minute miles but I’m getting there slowly but surely and contemplating my first half marathon. Thanks for this great post!

Michael

Hi Lindsay, hang in there. I couldn’t do 12 minute miles and now I can do around 10 minute miles (when it’s not 90 degrees outside). 🙂 However, I still PREFER to do a 11 minute mile pace – it just FEELS right for me. At first, I had shinsplints to deal with, but they are gone now. Keep up the great work! You get my YOU’RE AWESOME shout out of the day.

Robyn

Love this post. Just getting back into running and this reminds me why. Thanks Jesica.

robyn

Love this post! And it was great meeting you!

emskiruns

I absolutely loved this post and I think all of the truths mentioned are absolutely true 🙂

I have definitely learned that I am stronger than I think I am and I can achieve way more than I thought I ever could – Since November I have learnt that I can run a 5k I do it a few times a week now, I can run a 10k I know because I did it! And in November I couldn’t even run half a mile without wanting to die! I also know that weight loss is possible because since November I have lost over 2 and a half stone!

Thanks for another fab post!

rUnladylike

Congrats on all your amazing accomplishments!!! You are rocking it! xo

Sarah @RunFarGirl

Love this so much. I feel like all these things became true for me at hood to coast. They are things i think I’ve known but never really lived them. Now I feel like I can.

Jen Floyd @ milesandblessings

Amen, amen and amen!!!! This is so good. I started my blog about 3 months ago and it really is amazing the community of runners there is out there! I love it!!!
I love how running makes me feel and the people I have met because of it. I while it definitely does not define, I can’t imagine my life iwthout it 🙂

cheryl

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rUnladylike

Hi Cheryl,
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Debbie @ Deb Runs

This is a great list, and something to think about on every run! I love the poster with #1.