Thank You Running for Everything

November 23, 2015

As we prepare to celebrate Thanksgiving this week, I can’t help but reflect on how thankful I am for all running has brought into my life. It seems like such a simple activity, but running has given me far more than I could have ever imagined. Earlier this summer, my friends at Brooks Running asked me what I was most thankful for when it came to running. It seems fitting this week to share those feelings here with all of you. This post first appeared on the Brooks Running Blog

Thank You Running …

Most of us can recall a time we uttered those two terrible words that should be banned from every runner’s vocabulary – I can’t.

“I can’t run that far.”

“I can’t run that fast.”

“I don’t think I can do that.”

For me, I remember the moment like it was yesterday. I was sitting in a hotel ballroom on the eve of the 2008 Chicago Marathon attending a pre-race dinner for a work function. In between bites of rubbery pasta and dinner rolls that would make the Pillsbury Doughboy cringe, I discussed the power of running with a group of marathon runners and coaches who were in the Windy City to run the race. It was when they asked me about my own running that I said those infamous words.

Oh no, I can’t run a marathon.

I’ve always been a runner. Even a fairly speedy one for your “middle of the pack” athlete. In elementary school, I could beat all the boys in the mile. In middle school and high school, I often won my events at local track meets.

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I was a daughter of an elite sprinter and collegiate cross country coach. I liked to play sports, and I thrived on feeling strong. But running more than six miles never really occurred to me.

At least not yet.

When that group of runners told me on that October evening that I could definitely run a marathon if I wanted to, I scoffed at the idea. It was as laughable as me winning a gold medal in speed skating or badminton at the Olympics (and yes, badminton is really an Olympic sport).

Until I did.

About two weeks after that dinner, I ran a 13K with my husband (8.07 miles) that I’d been training for (the word “training” is a loose term that would be up for interpretation by my current running self). It was the longest distance I had ever run. When I finished, I felt on top of the world.

Less than a year later, I joined a local running group to train for my first half marathon. Several weeks into the training, I decided I could run a marathon.

Funny how running turns “can’ts” into “cans.”

The rest, as they say, was history. More than six years later, I’ve run eight marathons and met my Boston Marathon qualifying standard. I’ve finished several half-Iron distance triathlons and run numerous half marathons, 10Ks, 5Ks, relay races and other events. I became a certified marathon coach and now work with runners to help them conquer what they once thought was impossible.

In 2010 and 2014, I returned to Chicago and honored those runners and coaches from that infamous pre-race dinner in 2008. You were correct, my friends. I can, I will and I did. Thank you for reminding me, even when I didn’t believe it, that anything is possible.

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After the Chicago Marathon 2014

Running has changed everything.

There is not a day that goes by I’m not thankful for running. It’s not the act of logging the miles, of course. Running is so much more than “just running.”

The training, the personal growth, the courage to conquer goals, the discipline to make the right choices, the incredible people I’ve met, the inspiring running community, the power you feel when you finish something hard – all of these things have helped me redefine what is possible for myself.

Thank you running for teaching me that we are all stronger than we think and capable of doing more than we imagine we can do.

Read more about eight other reasons I’m thankful for running here.

Why are you thankful for running? What are the most meaningful things running has brought to your life?

Comments

Gabrielle from Austria

Dear Jesica!

I love that post and I’m thankful that running has changed my life.

I always used to be a clumsy, unathletic child among many sporty ones. “Gabrielle can’t move, Gabrielle can’t ski. Gabrielle isn’t in shape to climb a mountain, Gabrielle can’t run, she’s bad in everything!”
These were the words I used to hear over and over again.

The change came when I lived in America, I started to do aerobics (and even became an aerobics instructor!!!) I have been mountain biking and hiking.. And rignt in these day I celebrate 17 years of running.
And now it’s me who is one of the fit people.

Being one of the back pack it’s not always easy, though. Last week I learned a lot from my first Marathon DNF. My body was not at all ready for 42,195 km on that day. Should have been marathon nr.9
Somehow it was easy to let go, and Mr. HM, the little brother of Mr. Marathon, was very charming and we had a great time together.
So what I’ve learned is that sometimes less can be more..

Thank you for everthing, Jesica
Love
Gabrielle

rUnladylike

Thank you so much for sharing this with us Gabrielle! Isn’t it awesome how we have the power to change can’ts into cans, even when that journey is difficult? I’m so sorry to hear about your DNF. It seems like so many of my friends have had to cut their races short this year for a variety of reasons. But there will always be another race and another day … and you’ll look back on that one when the great race comes and realize how strong you are. I love a thought that a friend of mine shared that running will always be here for us when we’re ready. Thinking about you and wishing you a wonderful week. xoxo

Wendy@Taking the Long Way Home

Oh yes, I always said that I “couldn’t run a marathon”. Then I ran one, and I said “never again”. Here I am 3 marathons later, and another one coming up in April. Never say never, right?

rUnladylike

Haha! That’s what it does to us for sure! Hope your training is going well for number 4. xo

Laura @ This Runner's Recipes

This is so, so, SO true. I used to say “can’t” a lot – can’t run a marathon, etc. Running is certainly powerful in changing can’ts into cans and it never ceases to show me just how much I am capable of that I would never think I could do.

Kristin

so glad you were at that dinner! 🙂

Sheena @ Paws and Pavement

Love this post! Every runner has that doubt in the beginning and it is so awesome when someone else believes in us and we start to believe in ourselves. I’m so thankful for running and all the wonderful people I’ve met in the process. Happy Thanksgiving!