2017 Goals: My Running Comeback

January 6, 2017

Never have I been more excited to think about running goals. My friend Laura recently shared a perspective on goal-setting that really resonated with me. She suggested the best goals are the ones we may only be able to accomplish 50 percent of the time. Ah yes, getting comfortable with being uncomfortable. Pushing ourselves outside the box we often create in our mind.

Those are exactly the kind of goals I’ve been craving but have been unable to commit to … until now.

2017 goals on runladylike.com
My training log and journal are ready and have already been filled with goals and ideas for 2017.

For the past two years, starting a family has been my priority. In 2015, I couldn’t commit to an intense training cycle because “I might get pregnant.” Instead, I ran “for fun.” It turns out that running for fun isn’t all that fun when you’re never performing at your full potential and are constantly thinking about how much more you have to give. I ran four half marathons during the span of a year, including my slowest half marathon to date. So much for “running for fun” being fun for this competitive, type A runner. Then, I spent almost all of 2016 pregnant, which significantly slowed my running until I had to stop completely.

2017 is the year of my running comeback. Or at least the start of it.

I realize it’s going to be challenging to return to running after several months away and while juggling being a new mom. Regaining – and eventually surpassing – my strongest fitness level from 2014 is going to take time. But now I get to hunt it down with a hunger that has been brewing for far too long. I thrive when faced with something hard, especially when so many people like to remind me that I’ll be too tired, or too busy or too [fill in the blank here.] I am not naive to the realities that there will be intense periods of exhaustion, mental fatigue and de-motivation. But, I am the best I can be for others when I am the best I can be for myself. If something is important to me, I find a way to make it happen.

Three Big Goals

I have three running and fitness goals for the year. The underlying goal that goes without saying is that I will be trying to do these things while figuring out how to balance being a new mom who works full-time, trains and puts family and friends first.

1. Achieve my pre-baby weight within four months (before the end of April). 

I’ve gained about 30 pounds during my pregnancy, and I’m ready to say adios to those pounds once Baby rUnladylike is here. In addition to breastfeeding, which will aid the weight-loss process (or so I’ve heard), I plan to eat as clean as possible and start exercising easy and slowly as soon as I’m approved to do so by my doctor. On the nutrition front, I don’t believe in restricting food groups or making significant calorie cuts. I’ll likely be following a modified version of the 21 Day Fix plan with added portions/calories. It focuses on high quality foods that are mostly unprocessed.

2. Rebuild my running base to a comfortable 25-30 miles per week by July 1.

Most of 2017 is going to be about rebuilding my running base. While I can’t wait to run another marathon, running a solid marathon is not something I believe one can or should do in less than a year to perform at the level I’d like to perform. I believe the best marathon performances come from having a really strong half marathon base for a sustained period of time. Thus, I’m going to try to work my way (slowly and carefully) up to 25-30 miles per week by the summer. I’ll include at least two days per week of strength training to help prevent injury and muscle imbalances while incorporating cross-training like the elliptical and bike to enhance endurance without extra pounding on my joints and legs. Once I’m able to run 3 miles continuously several times per week again, I’ll spend 12-16 weeks solely focusing on easy miles that increase in volume.

3. Run a strong half marathon in November.

I’d like my base-building to pay off with a solid fall half marathon performance that reveals my current fitness level after 10 months of running again. In July, I’ll start to add speed work and pace-based workouts back into my training schedule, crafting a dedicated half marathon plan from July through October. I plan to select a flatter November half marathon that boasts cold temperatures and a fast course (conditions that bring out my best running). I’d like to be as close to my pre-baby fitness as possible, ideally breaking 1:40 or being somewhere in that vicinity (my current PR is 1:38:27 on a very hilly course under-trained).

So there you have it. These goals may not sound that aggressive, but I know they will be challenging to accomplish while breastfeeding and learning to adapt to life with a little baby. I am so excited for 2017 for so many reasons, and I’ll be documenting my journey to lose the baby weight, rebuild my running base and regain my half marathon fitness … all while juggling life and motherhood. My real hope is to discover that with prioritization, we can have it all.

Thanks as always for your support and for joining me on this journey. xo

What goals do you most want to achieve in 2017? For any moms out there, tell me about an awesome running accomplishment(s) you achieved after having your first baby.

Comments

angela @ happy fit mama

I fully believe that you can achieve these goals. You’ll find a way to make it all work. That’s what moms do! We just do it. I ran a half marathon a little less than 5 months after my kids were born. It wasn’t my fastest half (in fact it was my slowest) but training for it forced me to get outside, get creative in my workouts, let go of the need to do be around the kids every single moment, and to find myself again. While out for a run, it felt good to be alone with my thoughts and no noise. It’s when I stopped listening to music when I ran! I’ll be cheering you on all the way in 2017!

rUnladylike

Thank you so much my friend! I really appreciate your encouragement and support! xoxo

Sandra Laflamme

Go for those goals mama! Running after pregnancy definitely helps to provide the necessary life balance that all we type a runners need! You have an amazing year ahead of you!!!

Heather

I’m so much faster after having two babies than I was before I had kids and getting back to running postpartum was so exciting both times. I have two cautions – be really careful while you are breastfeeding to strength train more than you would otherwise. Relaxin stays in your system until you wean and makes you prone to injury (I tore the meniscus in my left knee 8 months postpartum BOTH times!). Second one – don’t beat yourself up about the weight loss. It takes 9 months to put on and everyone is different. I was lucky that I had voracious eaters and good genes – my body consumes itself while breastfeeding. The tiniest I’ve ever been has been 5 months PP but then I weaned, and put it back on 🙂 Just take care of yourself and enjoy the ride. You’ll most likely be tired and overwhelmed – try not to put too much pressure on yourself. The best advice I ever got was “this too shall pass.” Your baby will sleep, you will get to run, you will lose the weight, you will get time to yourself, you will get a shower. Maybe not today, but you will. Congrats and good luck! 🙂

rUnladylike

Hi Heather! I love to hear that you are stronger and faster after your babies (yay!), and I really appreciate your thoughtful advice and experience. I am on the same page with you related to starting slow and not making any of these goals overly-pressuring. We’ll see what happens and I’ll adjust as needed with curve balls and unexpected challenges I can’t yet see today. Thanks again for your comment! xo

Devon

You are amazing and I have no doubt you’ll achieve these goals! My two pieces of unsolicited advice:
1. If you can, get a massage in the week after you give birth. The massage I had 6 days later was soooo amaaaazing — way better than any post-marathon massage! My whole body was so sore from pushing, and my shoulders and arms were aching from the new strain of holding Evie and breastfeeding. Plus, that little bit of alone time felt so refreshing.
2. Don’t try to work out again too soon. At 2.5 weeks pp I was back in the gym doing light elliptical and weights, because I felt fine and had stayed active throughout pregnancy… but then I realized my body wasn’t ready and I waited the rest of the 6 weeks before getting cleared by my doc to do anything more than slow walking. Everyone is different, and for me the post-birth endorphin high lasted several weeks and made me feel invincible, but it’s so important to let yourself heal. Giving birth is no joke. Going even a few weeks without vigorous exercise felt like soooo long to me, but I think ultimately letting myself fully heal made my return to exercise much better because I could really go for it without potentially doing any damage. But in the end, what you do is up to you and your doc and what feels right — just sharing my hindsight! <3

rUnladylike

Hi Devon! Thank you for your kind words. It has been so fun to follow your journey as a new mom, and I’ve LOVED all your photos on Instagram. Your baby is the cutest ever!!! I’m still getting over the lobster costume 🙂 Thank you also for this great advice. I hadn’t thought about a massage right after the baby is born but I can see how that is helpful. I’ve been trying to get somewhat regular pre-natal massages which have been heavenly. Thanks also for sharing your experience about postpartum exercise. If I have a vaginal delivery, I’m hoping four weeks will be enough time, but I will definitely listen to my body and the doc and go very, very slow. I actually think I will start other things like walking and elliptical before I start running again. I’d love to be able to start running before the end of February, but we shall see. Either way I’ll have a lot of time for base-building which will be good to keep things slow and easy. Thanks again for sharing your great advice and experience. It means a lot to me. xoxo

Allison

I just want to add my two cents about putting pressure on yourself to loose a certain amount of weight in a certain amount of time (and other women who may read your blog). My body just really held onto weight while I was breastfeeding. Taking care of a human and having all their growth come from your breast milk is so much effort for your body. Everyone is different and it is impossible to know how your body will respond to the hormone changes/new demands. Until I stopped breastfeeding (at a year), my body did not let go of 10 lbs or so. I hope all moms spend their children’s infant months enjoying their babies and appreciating the amazing thing their body did/continues to do instead of worrying about weight. My youngest child is 5, and the years couple years I spent pregnant/breastfeeding my children seems like such a tiny portion of my life. My weight/body type during that time is really of such little importance.

rUnladylike

Hi Allison! Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment and advice. I wholeheartedly agree with you that my main focus will be our baby. I’ve heard from many of my very active running friends who have multiple kids that the weight came off quickly except those last 10 pounds, so I won’t know how my body responds until I actually experience it. I am not putting any pressure on myself as it relates to weight. I’ve always been at a very healthy weight and pretty much eat what I want within reason, so I don’t see a whole lot changing other than trying to eat as clean as possible so that I’m giving our baby the best nutrients through my milk. I am not obsessed with weight or a number on the scale. My intention was simply wanting to return to my normal, healthy weight within four months if that turns out to be possible. It may not and I may experience like many others that my body holds onto some pounds for a while. I’ll be open in sharing about that as time goes by. Thanks again for sharing your experience and insights. I appreciate it.

Laura @ This Runner's Recipes

I’m so glad the post resonated with you – and thanks for the shout out!
I think that since your half PR was on the RNR Seattle course (soooo hilly downtown!) and you’re planning on a flatter half, you will definitely get close to that! Your plan for 2017 sounds so well thought-out and smart, and I know you will accomplish it- while enjoying the blessing that is motherhood. It’s been really inspiring to follow how you’ve stayed fit during pregnancy and I can’t wait to see what you accomplish as a mom.

rUnladylike

Thank you so much Laura! I can’t wait to see all YOU will do this year! Exercising has been humbling to say the least these past nine months. My goal has just been to stay as active as I can, even as things slowed considerably. Even power walking at this point is too much, but I’ve just tried to find what works and do that. My docs are huge fans of me staying active, so I’m grateful for that. Happy New Year!

Nicole

All great goals! I’m so glad you’re motivated and excited to get back into it! I agree with what some others have said about the weight – I actually still am not at my pregnancy weight (though very close) because I am lifting more weights and am stronger! But, most people I know have not found breastfeeding to have a significant impact on weight loss so don’t count too much on that! I’m sure if you stick to a healthy diet and exercise as I know you willl, the weight will come off easily and over time. PS I’d love to have you join one of my 21 day fix challenge groups if you don’t already have one to join!

Jess @ Jess Runs ATL

Love your goals!!! So excited to follow your journey this year, and can’t wait to see which half you pick!